Mindless Influence

There is a group of rowdy pub crawlers on the train. I am sitting next to a young girl ( probably about 14) and I just remembered some wisdom from my brilliant noble friend Amanda Garcia.

This unpleasant experience is what it's like for kids in a home with people who drink, drug, eat, talk, worry or fight too much- it's a creepy feeling. I feel nervous and embarrassed, not quite sure of my safety and a little fearful about what's going to happen next. I feel trapped under the influence of drunken adults.

But the truth is, I could get off the train or move to another car. ( I won't because I want to stay next to this young woman in case she needs protection. If it worsens, I will encourage her to move with me)

I think an important part about understanding our role as caretakers of the world's children is that even if they really really want to, they can't just choose to leave or change their circumstance.( and those who do manage to escape deserve refuge in my humble opinion) 

I am sending love to children (and adults and animals) who have no choice, grateful for this reminder about the gift of empathy, and painfully aware of the times I have engaged in mindless influence with beings who deserve better. (I lose patience and take out frustrations on those around me without even noticing it more often than I care to admit)

Be mindful about who you are-(a powerful influence on the people around you) and enjoy a peacefully productive Wednesday.

I love you

Mary